Older Boy's daycare regularly has outings for their kiddos and typically the entire family is invited to share in the fun. Last night we were invited to a swimming party at Coco Key Resort. Both boys have been looking forward to it since we found out about it.

We had to go home before the party. We didn't do well while we were there. Older Boy got really angry with Younger Boy. Honestly I am not sure why. I imposed a 15 minute cool down period which caused even more anger and by the time we were done Older Boy was up to a one hour cool down. During the whole thing he had stomped up the stairs to his room and slammed the door. After about two minutes in the cool down he came downstairs and we talked.

He has such a hard time with assumptions. His assumption is always that people hate him. Either Younger Boy hates him or I am going to adopt Younger Boy and send him away or he should just be dead. We talked about how if Younger Boy and I don't say these things he cannot just assume them. He started to cry and apologized. We ended up leaving after 20 minutes of cool down. I am not completely unreasonable!!

Swimming was a blast. Both boys loved the slides and the lazy river. They played well together and I was shocked when they were ready to leave before it was actually time to go. They really want to go back.

When we got home we baked a cake for "Grandpa's" birthday. The boys are so excited to meet the entire family. I'm excited for them.