Older Boy got off to a bad start this morning. I had to go into his room ELEVEN times to get him out of bed. Even then he didn't.

Younger Boy and I went outside in the car, because by this time I was late for work.

Older Boy came out and was mad, because I made him go back and close the door to the house. Really? You were the last one out. He then proceeded to explain to me that Younger Boy should have the same consequences he does, because otherwise it is not fair. I explained that if Younger Boy stole something and had to go to jail Older Boy wouldn't have to go to jail. It's the same thing. He doesn't get it.

In the last 12 hours he has lost quite a few privileges. Younger Boy did not. It is going to be a nightmare to manage it.

I talked to Foster Care Specialist this morning and she suggested that when Older Boy starts yelling I should just go to the safe place with Younger Boy and not address Older Boy until he has calmed down. I haven't tried it before...maybe it will work. I am willing to try anything.

Prayers for peace at home tonight. Prayers for wisdom and understanding.