It's time for new boundaries with Older Boy. He doesn't understand when hugs and touch is appropriate and inappropriate, especially socially inappropriate.

So...now we are working on handshakes with men instead of hugs. We are also working on not giving people a hug every time you leave or see them.

By far the hardest is how many times he insists on hugging Younger Boy. With him it is a control thing. We are trying to limit it to once a day. I'll be honest...it isn't working.