Middle Boy thinks he is being played by Therapist L.
So he decided to "play her".
I don't know the details of what went on. I can only imagine.
Middle Boy doesn't get it. He has to pass this therapeutic program. COURT ORDERED or RESIDENTIAL TREATMENT. That doesn't include lying to your therapist and being a jerk. It isn't going to help your case in court when the judge reads her reports.
On the way home from therapy he went ON AND ON about how he doesn't have to be honest or truthful with her. Therapists just try to manipulate your anyway. ON AND ON.
He is reconfirming to me why no progress ever gets made in therapy with him.
Finally I had it tonight.
Therapy is about healing. You can't heal if you choose OVER AND OVER to be dishonest. You have to help yourself. You have to change your perspective or we are going to be doing this for a very long time...very long.
So he decided to "play her".
I don't know the details of what went on. I can only imagine.
Middle Boy doesn't get it. He has to pass this therapeutic program. COURT ORDERED or RESIDENTIAL TREATMENT. That doesn't include lying to your therapist and being a jerk. It isn't going to help your case in court when the judge reads her reports.
On the way home from therapy he went ON AND ON about how he doesn't have to be honest or truthful with her. Therapists just try to manipulate your anyway. ON AND ON.
He is reconfirming to me why no progress ever gets made in therapy with him.
Finally I had it tonight.
Therapy is about healing. You can't heal if you choose OVER AND OVER to be dishonest. You have to help yourself. You have to change your perspective or we are going to be doing this for a very long time...very long.
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