When we got home from therapy I asked the boys to please clean up their dirty dishes in the kitchen (which have been there for DAYS) and to bring their laundry to the laundry room to be sorted and I would work on laundry.

Apparently this is TOO MUCH work.

I will not live like this.  My expectation is that you pick up after yourself.  Boarder is getting just as bad as the boys. 

Things are going to change around here...TODAY.