One of the topics of our conversation was trust. We actually discussed how much trust we have in each other.
What we came to the conclusion of is that one of us is going to need to bite the bullet and trust a little bit more.
He doesn't trust my reaction to anything so he is at times purposefully deceitful.
Generally I find out and this makes me trust him less.
It is kind of a vicious circle.
I asked him how honest he thinks he is with his words. He thinks he is probably truthful 50% of the time he answers my questions. That isn't that good.
I asked him how trustworthy he thought he was when he gives his word when it involves following up with action. My perception is that it is about 10% of the time. He thinks it is 80%. I gave him some examples of where I didn't think that was the case. It was kind of interesting.
I work really hard to follow through with the boys, because they have been let down so very many times before.
We are going to touch base on this again in a few weeks and see where we are.
Prayers we can both be trustworthy.
What we came to the conclusion of is that one of us is going to need to bite the bullet and trust a little bit more.
He doesn't trust my reaction to anything so he is at times purposefully deceitful.
Generally I find out and this makes me trust him less.
It is kind of a vicious circle.
I asked him how honest he thinks he is with his words. He thinks he is probably truthful 50% of the time he answers my questions. That isn't that good.
I asked him how trustworthy he thought he was when he gives his word when it involves following up with action. My perception is that it is about 10% of the time. He thinks it is 80%. I gave him some examples of where I didn't think that was the case. It was kind of interesting.
I work really hard to follow through with the boys, because they have been let down so very many times before.
We are going to touch base on this again in a few weeks and see where we are.
Prayers we can both be trustworthy.
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