I have decided to postpone the adoption of Younger Boy for a while. He needs help with his behaviors and I want to make sure he gets the services and assessments he needs.

At this point in time he is quite vocal about how he doesn't care if he is violent and everyone hates him. His words not mine.

I want to make sure that he does not have the same behavioral needs and issues as Older Boy. If he does, my adopting him would make getting the services he needs much more difficult for him.