Tonight Mom and Dad J came over for a visit.  They are the adoptive parents of Middle Brother and Younger Sister.  It was good to see them.  It is so obvious how much they love the boys and how much the boys love and respect them.

Mom and Dad J are pretty aware of what goes on in our house.  They were the foster parents of the boys for about 18 months and I talk to them fairly regularly, because they "know".

Dad J talked to the boys a lot about getting the anger out of them and respecting others.  He talked about how they are in control of their anger and they are making bad choices when it comes to anger.  He asked them to chart it for him until they see him in court next week.

Praises they are still willing to be involved.  Praises they love the boys.  These kids can never have too many people on their side.