I asked Middle Boy about the email from Spanish Teacher.

Wow...major meltdown.

She is stupid.  He didn't throw anything in the classroom.  He sat in his desk the entire class.

He isn't missing any work.

Tell him what work he is missing.

I expect too much from him.  He is too stupid to do the work required in high school.

He is just going to focus on Spanish and fail everything else.  EVERYTHING.  Then I can see how I like it.

He is trying.  His way of trying doesn't have to look like mine.  It can look however he wants it to.

He doesn't need help.  Only weak people need help. 

He is just fine by himself in this life.  He doesn't need me.  Not for anything...NOT ONE THING.