Older Sister M has contacted Mom and Dad J multiple times and is considering a visit over the holidays.
On December 15th we have court for Older Boy and Younger Boy. At that time Mom and Dad J are going to pursue the rules for sibling contact with Older Sister. She is legally allowed to talk to Younger Sister H now, because H has been adopted.
Here's the quandry we find ourselves in. Is now a good time to have a MAJOR disruption like reintroducing Older Sister M back into the mix. Older Boy cries about her often. I don't recall EVER hearing Younger Boy mention her. I kind of want to ask him if he would want to look for her. I don't want to raise his suspicions though.
I don't want to keep them from having sibling contact. Therapist J thinks we should hold off for a few months, because of all of the changes they have gone through recently. I just hate that this is so complicated.
Prayers for wisdom regarding the timing of the visit and contact with Older Sister M.
On December 15th we have court for Older Boy and Younger Boy. At that time Mom and Dad J are going to pursue the rules for sibling contact with Older Sister. She is legally allowed to talk to Younger Sister H now, because H has been adopted.
Here's the quandry we find ourselves in. Is now a good time to have a MAJOR disruption like reintroducing Older Sister M back into the mix. Older Boy cries about her often. I don't recall EVER hearing Younger Boy mention her. I kind of want to ask him if he would want to look for her. I don't want to raise his suspicions though.
I don't want to keep them from having sibling contact. Therapist J thinks we should hold off for a few months, because of all of the changes they have gone through recently. I just hate that this is so complicated.
Prayers for wisdom regarding the timing of the visit and contact with Older Sister M.
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