After school today I asked Middle Boy about the bullying of Younger Boy.
He didn't get defensive or make excuses. He got really quiet.
I asked him about every incident Younger Boy had mentioned during therapy. He said things like "that only happened a couple of times" and "I don't do that anymore".
I asked him about the incident this morning. His version was a little bit different than Younger Boy's, but still involved him bullying Younger Boy.
I asked if he had ever been bullied in his life (knowing full well he did at the hands of an adult) and he said yes. I asked if ANYONE ever deserves to be bullied and he said no.
We are going to have a family meeting tonight to discuss how we are going to treat each other and how we want to be treated.
For the sake of this family I hope it goes well.
Prayers for the family meeting and for wisdom.
He didn't get defensive or make excuses. He got really quiet.
I asked him about every incident Younger Boy had mentioned during therapy. He said things like "that only happened a couple of times" and "I don't do that anymore".
I asked him about the incident this morning. His version was a little bit different than Younger Boy's, but still involved him bullying Younger Boy.
I asked if he had ever been bullied in his life (knowing full well he did at the hands of an adult) and he said yes. I asked if ANYONE ever deserves to be bullied and he said no.
We are going to have a family meeting tonight to discuss how we are going to treat each other and how we want to be treated.
For the sake of this family I hope it goes well.
Prayers for the family meeting and for wisdom.
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