Something struck me as we were talking with Pastor J and Pastor T.  On a couple of occasions one or the other of them commented that the boys are really mature in the things they are saying and also quite brave.

Middle Boy said he needs to change.  His behavior is affecting others and it isn't fair.

Younger Boy talked about a meeting the two of them had on Thursday about how they aren't fair to me.

Both things mature.  Both things show compassion and empathy.

I am proud they are my sons.  Thank you God for putting them in my life and allowing me to be their mom.