Tonight we had a family meeting regarding taking the temporary foster child into our home.
I expected to be met with IMMEDIATE rejection and resistance. Maybe I was kind of hoping for it.
Because it is their home, too, I was honest about the story of the kiddo. I told them what his behaviors were and why he needed a home for a little while.
Younger Boy was ALL IN. As far as he was concerned this kiddo could move in yet tonight.
Middle Boy was more introspective. I could tell he was really going back and forth in his mind. I expected him to be an immediate "no way".
I asked the boys to think about it and pray about it. I told them they are part of this family and their vote and opinions matter. I explained sometimes it would be necessary for me to overrule their vote, but they deserve to be heard.
Prayers for wisdom for the boys and for me going forward.
I expected to be met with IMMEDIATE rejection and resistance. Maybe I was kind of hoping for it.
Because it is their home, too, I was honest about the story of the kiddo. I told them what his behaviors were and why he needed a home for a little while.
Younger Boy was ALL IN. As far as he was concerned this kiddo could move in yet tonight.
Middle Boy was more introspective. I could tell he was really going back and forth in his mind. I expected him to be an immediate "no way".
I asked the boys to think about it and pray about it. I told them they are part of this family and their vote and opinions matter. I explained sometimes it would be necessary for me to overrule their vote, but they deserve to be heard.
Prayers for wisdom for the boys and for me going forward.
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