During the session with the pastors Middle Boy got on the topic of having a concrete wall around his heart.  How he isn't planning to let anyone in...EVER.

After a bit of this discussion Pastor J said that it really makes him sad.  Maybe he should consider using wood to build that wall and work really hard to let people in, because his past doesn't define him if he doesn't let it.  He told Middle Boy that if he chooses wood over concrete one day he would look back and it would be hay.

This completely clicked with Middle Boy.  He really thought about it and talked about it...A LOT.

Thank you God for giving Pastor J the wisdom and the words to speak to Middle Boy's heart.